Seeing Others: How Recognition Transforms Our Self-Worth

How do we measure success? For decades, self-worth has been defined by achievement, wealth, and relentless self-reliance—a mindset shaped by neoliberalism and economic competition. But as inequality widens and burnout rises, acclaimed sociologist Michèle Lamont asks: Is it time to redefine what truly matters?

In this groundbreaking work, Lamont argues that recognition—being seen, valued, and respected—is the key to healing ourselves and our societies. Drawing on nearly forty years of research and interviews, she explores how cultural icons, Gen Z, and change-makers are challenging old metrics of success and shaping new narratives centered on dignity, respect, and belonging.

A bold and timely call to shift our focus from having to being, Seeing Others offers a powerful vision for a more inclusive and fulfilling future—one where self-worth isn’t measured by accomplishments alone, but by the ability to uplift and recognize others.